让保姆,爷爷奶奶带孩子不自己亲自照顾,很多中国父母以为孩子只要身边有人看着,没有生命危险就好。其实从出生开始,孩子就需要和别人交流。不会说话也可以交流。肌肤的接触,拥抱,关注的眼光,和他说话。孩子需要不断的交流,会变得比较聪明,对爱有安全感。我们很多家庭的孩子,是在没有关注的环境下长大。脑子会变得怪异呆滞,然后永远缺 Let nanny, grandparents bring children do not take care of themselves, many Chinese parents think that as long as the children looked around, there is no danger to life like. In fact, from birth, children need to communicate with others. You can talk without talking. Skin contact, hug, focus of attention, talk to him. Children need constant communication, will become smarter, have a sense of security for love. The children of many of our families grew up without paying attention. Brain will become weird and sluggish, and then always missing