嵩县田湖镇裴村位于河南的西南部,地势偏僻,是一个长满了石头不见树的村庄。1982年的秋天,不满17岁的李海龙因家里缺少劳力而辍学,为了省去娶媳妇的彩礼,父亲给他订下邻村一桩“倒插门”的婚事。扯着鞭子,到野外去放养家里的三头牛;走一天的路,上深山里采中药;第一次坐 Song County Tianhu Town, Pei Village is located in southwestern Henan Province, remote, is a covered tree with no stone village. In the fall of 1982, Li Hailong, a 17-year-old who had dropped out of school due to lack of labor at home, ordered him to lay down an “intrusion” marriage to his neighbor in order to save the bride’s bridewealth. Pull the whip to go wild to stocking the three cows at home; take the road one day, mining herbs in the mountains; the first sit