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A觉得丈夫不懂怎么爱孩子,我要怎么和他沟通?我先生是在单亲家庭中长大,缺乏母爱,父亲又很忙,很少陪伴他。现在我们有了孩子,他也很少陪孩子,我和他提出,父亲在孩子成长过程中的重要性,他就回我一句,他小时候父亲也不管他,可他照样现在好好的。我真不知道,该怎么和他沟通呢?Q爱是一种体验,而不单是一个技巧,因此,过去没有经历过,没有学习、模仿的对象,现在要去爱、去陪伴,的确不容易。以下是三不要三要的建议:①不要以责备或要求的口气叫先生去陪孩子,要肯定他对孩子的爱;有时先生不是不愿意,而是不会、不知道怎么做。②不要被动地等先
A husband and wife do not know how to love their children, how can I communicate with him? My husband grew up in a single-parent family, lack of maternal love, his father is very busy, rarely accompany him. Now that we have children and he rarely accompany them, I put forward to him the importance of his father in the process of his child’s growth. He just said that when he was young, his father did not care about him, but he was still good now. I really do not know how to communicate with him? Q love is an experience, not just a skill, therefore, the past has not experienced, no learning, imitation of the object, now to love, to accompany, is not easy . The following is a three do not want three suggestions: ① Do not blame or demanded to call Mr. to go with his children, to affirm his love for their children; sometimes not not reluctant, but not, do not know how to do. ② Do not wait passively