有时候,说实话会带来痛苦。但是如果你对孩子说谎,其伤害会更大,即使谎言是善意的。从小父亲就对卡罗琳和弗丝说,她们的母亲在她俩很小的时候就去世了。姐妹俩对父亲的话一直深信不疑。后来,姐妹俩在大人的谈话中无意中听到她们的母亲并没有死,而是在她们很小的时候与父亲离婚了。不仅如此,卡罗琳还得知父亲扣住了母亲给她们的信件和包裹。“父亲以为他这么做是在爱护我们,不让我们感受到被遗弃的痛苦,”卡罗琳 Sometimes, to be honest will bring pain. But if you lie to your child, it hurts even more, even if the lie is good. As a young father, he told Caroline and Forse that their mother had died when they were young. The sisters have been convinced of his father’s words. Later, in an adult conversation, the sisters inadvertently heard that their mothers did not die, but divorced their father when they were very young. Not only that, Caroline also learned that his father withheld the letter and parcel from her mother. “My father thought he was doing it to protect us, let us feel the pain of being abandoned, ” Caroline