“为了孩子我们孟母三迁,哪怕每天我自己的交通时间增加了一倍;为了孩子,我几乎失去了交际;为了孩子,我放弃事业,甘愿成为单位的边缘人……”“孩子小时候,为他的健康操心;上学了,为他的学业操心;工作了,为他的生活操心;结婚了,在我们该享受生活的时候又要替他带孩子,我们的一生都给了他……”大多数中国父母都觉得自 “For the sake of our children, we moved to Mongolia three times, even if my own traffic time doubled every day. For the sake of children, I almost lost my communication. For the sake of children, I gave up my career willingly to become the edge of the unit. Childhood, worry about his health; go to school, worry about his studies; work, worry about his life; get married, we have to take care of him when we enjoy life, our life is given He ... ... ”Most Chinese parents feel self