尊敬的老师:您好!我想咨询一个心理问题:我和我老公结婚四年了,还算幸福。最近老公换了个工作,平时晚上很晚回来,应酬多了,我就缺乏安全感,总吵架。我知道这样会影响感情,但是只要他不接我电话,和我不交心说实话,我就会胡思乱想,越想越怕,做不了其他的事情。结果我发现他真的出轨了,他也向我承认了。他发现那个女孩子喜欢他,他们在一起半个月了。我虽 Dear teacher: Hello! I would like to consult a psychological question: I marry my husband for four years, fairly happy. Her husband recently changed jobs, usually late at night back, more social, I lack the sense of security, the total quarrel. I know this will affect the feelings, but as long as he does not answer my phone, and I do not talk to be honest, I will cranky, more and more afraid, can not do other things. I found he really derailed, he admitted to me. He found that girl liked him, they were together for half a month. I though