当前,小学生生日聚会陷入攀比怪圈,日益呈现低龄化、普遍化、奢侈化等特征,这既是不良班级风气和学校消费教育缺失的影响,也是不当的家庭教育理念衍生的教育方式以及学生自我认识能力不足等所导致的结果。为此,有必要从学校教育、家庭教育和学生自我教育上进行疏解,促使小学生健康快乐成长。 At present, the primary school children’s birthday party falls into a vicious circle and presents the characteristics of younger age, universalization and extravagance. This is not only the impact of the poor class culture and the lack of school consumption education, but also the improper educational concept of family education and the self-awareness of students Insufficient results. To this end, it is necessary from the school education, family education and student self-education to ease, to promote healthy and happy primary school students grow.