在与儿童的交往中,面对儿童的懒散、糊涂、淘气、粗心、抑或是毫无恶意的闹剧等诸如此类的情况,大多数成人常常未经思虑就匆忙做出反应:或殴打、或体罚、或歇斯底里,但最后往往一无所获。英国剑桥行为研究中心创始人、美国波士顿大学和加利福尼亚大学心理学教授罗伯特·爱泼斯坦则认为,正确的办法就是阻止那些未经思虑的反应的发生。儿童需要纪律的约束,但是,我们怎样才能使他们获得正确的行为而又不失成人的沉着与尊严呢?罗伯特·爱泼斯坦认为,采取下列 In the case of interactions with children, lazy, confused, naughty, careless, or unprofitable farce of children, most adults often respond in a hurry without much thought or beating or corporal punishment, Or hysterical, but in the end often nothing. Robert Epstein, a founder of the Cambridge Research Center for Science in the United Kingdom and a professor of psychology at the University of Boston and the University of California in the United States, believes that the correct solution is to stop the uninformed reaction. Children need disciplinary discipline, but how can we get them to behave properly without losing the composure and dignity of adults? Robert Epstein believes that the following