我毕业于一所名牌大学。刚走入社会时,我总认为,靠着名牌大学这个牌子,自己一定能找到一个上好的工作。可在找工作的过程中,却屡屡碰壁,我开始变得牢骚满腹,总觉得这个社会“屈”了自己。一次,父亲带我来到海边,给我讲了一个故事。父亲说,有爷孙俩,驾船出海,可在途中遭遇了风暴,爷爷果断地砍掉了船上的桅杆。孙子不解,问,桅杆是船前进的力量和支撑,为什么要砍断它呢?爷爷说,由于高高竖立的桅杆使船的重心上移,削弱了船的稳定性,一旦遭遇风暴,船就有倾覆的危险,桅杆便成了灾难的祸端。父亲讲完这个故事后,语重心长地对我说:“孩子, I graduated from a prestigious university. Just entering the community, I always think that relying on the brand-name universities, they will certainly be able to find a good job. Can find work in the process, but often run into a wall, I began to become complacent, always feel that this society Qu. Once, my father took me to the beach and told me a story. My father said that there are both father and son, driving a boat to sea, can encounter a storm on the way, my grandfather decisively cut the mast on board. Grandson puzzled, asked, the mast is the boat forward force and support, why cut it? Grandpa said that due to the high mast uplift the center of gravity of the ship, weakening the stability of the ship, in the event of a storm, the ship There is danger of capsizing, and the mast becomes the calamity of the disaster. After my father finished this story, I solemnly said to me: ”Children,