有这样一些人,他们似乎从没有快乐过:倒霉的日子一天接着一天,糟糕的事情一件接着一件,烦恼无休无止,终日忧心忡忡,愤怒,暴躁影响着亲情、友情。多么讨厌、多么残酷的生活!如果恰巧你就是这样的人,请别气馁,你能改变这一切,如果你了解并熟练运用“90/10法则”!那么,什么是“90/10法则”呢?简要地说就是,生活的10%是由发生在你身上的事情组成的,而另外的90%则由你对所发生的事情如何反应所决定。“90/10法则”的内在含义是:我们确确实实无法控制发生在我们身上的10%,比如我们无法阻止我们的轿车一天天变旧,也无法不让飞机晚点,一个偶然的事故就让我们遭遇令人恼怒的堵车。这些都属于那10%,我们都 There are such people who never seem to be happy: unlucky days day by day, bad things one by one, troubles endless, worried all day, anger, irritability affects the affection, friendship. How annoying, how cruel it is! If you happen to be such a person, do not be discouraged, you can change it all if you understand and master the “90/10 rule”! Law? "In a nutshell, 10% of life is made up of things that happen to you, and the other 90% is determined by how you react to what’s going on. The intrinsic meaning of the 90/10 rule is that we do indeed have no control over the 10% that occurs to us, for example, we can not stop our cars from getting old every day, and we can not keep the plane from getting late, an accident by accident Let us experience irritable traffic jams. These are all 10% of us, all of us