“好孩子，要听话……”记得有一首歌这样唱道。听话的孩子就是好孩子吗？到底什么样的孩子是好孩子？到底现代家庭教育应该怎样确定好孩子的标准？在我们许多家长心目中，评价孩子好不好的首要标准是“听不听话”。听话，则是好孩子；不听话，则不是好孩子。您听有多少家长这 “Good boy, obediently ...” I remember singing a song like this. Obedient child is a good kid? What kind of child is a good kid? In the end how should modern family education determine the standard of good children? In the eyes of many of our parents, the primary criterion for evaluating a child’s well-being is “displeasure.” Obedient, it is a good boy; not obey, it is not a good boy. How many parents you hear about this