最近,我收到这样一封电子邮件,发信者是一个年轻女性。她为自己始终过不了那一关而苦恼,信中说:“我和丈夫已经结婚半年多了,丈夫对我温柔体贴,我感到很幸福。但是就是过夫妻生活的时候,到现在也还没有真正进入过……因为我怕疼,他很心软,只要我受不了,推他,他就不敢再用劲了。 Recently, I received an email from a young woman. She was distressed by the fact that she had never been able to pass that pass, and said: "My husband and I have been married for more than six months, and my husband is tender and considerate to me, and I feel very happy. But when I was married, I still had not Really entered the ... ... because I am afraid of pain, he was very soft, as long as I can not stand, push him, he would not dwell.