一般而言,初次见面的人,言谈大都不会立刻进入本题,而是通过一些“家常话”来拉开谈话序幕。这样,人们就往往先说到各自感兴趣的话题了。“你的兴趣是什么?”“我喜欢种花,特别是常青植物。”“嘿!看不出你这么年轻,就出现了种花的兴致。”随着这样的寒暄话语,便开始转向要讨论的正题。因此,有关兴趣方面的话题,实可说是进入言谈状态的润滑剂。 In general, people who meet for the first time, most of the talk will not immediately enter the title, but through some “home talk” to pull off the conversation. In this way, people often talk about their own topic of interest. “What’s your hobby?” “I like to plant flowers, especially evergreens.” “Hey, I can not see you being so young, there’s a spirits of flowers.” With such a greeting, they began to turn to the discussion The topic of Therefore, the topic of interest, it can be said to enter the state of talk lubricant.