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著名文化学者于丹在谈到为人处事的准则和生活态度时,用几个“过不去”进行了精辟概括:别和小人过不去,因为他和谁都过不去。小人看谁都不顺眼,处处算计别人,与小人计较,你也将变得心胸狭窄,把自己的身价降低。他把你的做人准则拉到和他一样的水平,这样,他就可以用他最擅长的方式来打败你。别和社会过不去,如果你对整个社会充满敌意和仇视,你将四处碰壁,头破血流。用友善的心态对
When Yu Dan, a famous cultural scholar, talked about his norms and attitude towards being a human being, he made a brilliant summary with a few words: "Do not go with the villain, because he does not want to go with anyone. Look at the villain who are not pleasing to the eye, count everybody everywhere, with the villain, you will also become narrow-minded, to reduce their own worth. He pulled your rules of life to the same level as him, so that he could beat you in the way he did best. Do not get along with society. If you are hostile and hostile to society as a whole, you will run into trouble. Right with a friendly attitude