许多家长反映,十五六岁的孩子最难教育,他们似乎成心跟父母对着干,动不动就顶嘴,理亏了也不认错,不知中了什么邪。还有家长说,这个年龄的孩子目空一切,甚至是非不分,理直气壮地以“非主流”为荣,奇装异服,招摇过市,稍有不顺心即扬言离家出走,让人非常担心。孩子的这些逆反表现原因何在?家长应该怎样应对?我们邀请国家二级心理咨询师杨嘉奇先生,与家长朋友一起给逆反的孩子把把脉。 Many parents report that the 15 and 16-year-olds are the hardest-to-be-educated children. They seem to be doing their utmost to behave like their parents. They turn their heads at every turn, failing to admit their mistakes and ignoring the evil. Some parents also said that children of this age have turned out to be everything, even non-discriminatory. They are righteously proud of being “non-mainstream ” and flirting with marriages. What are the causes of these inverse behaviors of children and how should parents respond? We invite Mr. Yang Jiaqi, a national second-level psychological counselor, to join hands with parents and friends to give advice to the children who are rebellious.