钱钟书把婚姻比喻为围城,说城外的人想进来,城内的人想出去,在这来去之间,正隐含了人生的悖论。其实,人生何处不围城?小至婚姻和家庭,大至单位和社会,这个世界就是一座城,它紧紧地把我们围住,让我们感到生命快要被 Qian metaphor marriage as a siege of the city, saying that people outside the city want to come in, the city people want to go out, between the moment, is implicit paradox of life. Actually, where life does not encircle the city? As small as marriage and family, as large as units and society, this world is a city, it tightly surround us, let us feel that life is about to be