策划人小语你是这样的女人吗?不懂得爱惜自己;经常把自己的利益放在一边,目的是为了保住你的爱情或婚姻;不喜欢他的性格和缺点,却只能忍受,并认为只要自己足够有魅力、足够爱他,他就会为你改变;渴望“帮助”他,怎样付出都不嫌麻烦,不嫌费时间,不嫌代价高;愿意等待、期盼,害怕他不高兴,愿意努力取悦他;害怕感情出问题,因为你会内疚,觉得是自己的错;感情生活跌宕起伏、痛苦不堪,但你觉得这才是“真爱”。不懂得爱惜自己 Planning a small language Are you a woman? Do not know how to care for yourself; Often put their own interests aside, the purpose is to keep your love or marriage; Do not like his personality and shortcomings, But can only endure and think He will change for you as long as he is attractive enough and loves him enough. He desires “helping ” and he will not be bothered to pay anything if he is attractive enough Unhappy, willing to work hard to please him; afraid of feeling problems, because you will feel guilty, feel their own fault; emotional life ups and downs, painful, but you think this is “true love ”. Do not know how to care for yourself