孤独并不可耻。每个人都有自己的心灵城堡,有时候呆在里面,不仅安全、温暖、自在,甚至也可以丰富多彩,比外面的世界可爱得多。林清玄在散文集里叙述了他小时候喜欢独来独往,为了探索一朵花的开放,他可以坐着等一下午。我想,林清玄之所以能成为大作家,这和他敏感的内心有很大关系。或许每个性格孤僻的孩子,他们体悟社会的方式都如林先生一样,默默地观察,默默地思索。不合群,未必就是不善于交流。试问,一个孩子性格内向, Loneliness is not shameful. Everyone has their own castle of the soul, and sometimes stay inside, not only safe, warm, comfortable, and can even be colorful, more lovely than the outside world. Lin Qingxuan in the essay narrated his childhood as a loner, in order to explore the opening of a flower, he can sit for an afternoon. I think, Lin Ching-hsun was able to become a major writer, which has a great relationship with his sensitive inner. Perhaps every character of isolated children, their way of understanding society are the same as Mr. Lin, silently observe, silently thinking. Not gregarious, not necessarily not good at communication. Ask, a child introverted,