并不存在什么简单规则可以引导我们在过度自爱的暗礁和在其对面的自卑海妖之间安全穿行,但是,为自己找到正确的价值观就可以平衡两者。公元一世纪的罗马作家奥维德,在《变形记》的第三卷中讲述了风采翩翩的那耳喀索斯化身水仙花的故事:许多青年和姑娘都爱慕这位俊美的水神之子,但都遭到了拒绝,于是有位失意的男子祈祷,“我愿他只爱自己,永远享受不到他所爱的东西!”复仇女神于是让那耳喀索斯在水里看见一个美男子的形象,立刻产生爱慕之情。最后他饭也不吃, There are no simple rules that will guide us safely through the reefs of self-love and the inferior monsters across from them, but finding the right values ​​for yourself balances the two. Ovid, the Roman writer of the first century AD, tells the story of the elegant otaxisskia daffodil in the third volume of Metamorphosis: Many young people and girls alike love the handsome Son of God, Have been rejected, so a frustrated man pray, “I wish he only loved himself, never enjoy what he loved!” "The goddess of revenge so that İsarosusi saw a beautiful man in the water Image, immediately produce love. Finally, he does not eat rice