与朋友一道,在一家档次不低的餐馆用餐。听朋友说话,手一抖,食物落在餐桌上,我本能地用筷子去夹。朋友摁住了我的筷子,说弄脏了,别夹了。我说,这是我的习惯。朋友纳闷了:你的家世和生活现状都不至于窘困,何以养成了这么个一点也不“优雅”的习惯?其实,在童年的生活中,母亲就立 Together with your friends, dine in a good restaurant. When I listen to my friends, I shake my hands and food falls on the table. I instinctively use chopsticks to clip it. My friend choked my chopsticks and said it was dirty. I said this is my habit. My friend wondered: Your family and life conditions are not in need of relief. Why did you develop such a habit of not being “elegant” at all? In fact, in your childhood, your mother will stand up.