也许自从你知道自己将要有孩子起,你就希望他或她成为一个聪明、健康的有用之才了。你费尽精力,用去收入和积蓄,把你拥有的全部知识和智慧都用来抚养他(她)、教育他,希望他能出类拔粹,学习成绩优异,考上重点中学、重点大学,也许有许多你自己尚未实现的梦想,都压在他稚嫩的双肩和纤弱的 Maybe since you knew you were going to have children, you wanted him or her to be a smart, healthy and useful person. You devoted all your energy, income, and savings to raising him (her) with all the knowledge and wisdom you had, educating him, hoping that he would excel at class, There may be many dreams you have not realized yet, all of which are pressed on his immaculate shoulders and delicate