早就耳闻部队基层年轻干部找对象难。为此我对某部没有成家的青年军官进行了调查。其中28周岁以上的有59名,占调查总数的25%。这些青年军官是不是由于工作繁忙而忽视了自己的终身大事呢了不是。当我问及此事,他们几乎都能谈上几段恋爱史,但最终却以失败而告结束,言谈话语中流露出对生活的伤感。青年军官由于其工作生活在“男性王国”里,使他们对女性颇为敏感,恋爱婚姻问题牵扯了他们业余生 It has been hard to find out that young cadres at the grassroots level of military units have long sought out targets. To this end, I conducted an investigation into a young officer who was unincorporated. 59 of them over the age of 28, accounting for 25% of the total number of surveys. Are not these young officers ignoring their lifelong greatness because of their heavy workload? When I asked about it, they almost always talked about the history of love affairs, but eventually ended up in failure. The words of conversation discredited the life. Young officers, who live in the “male kingdom” because of their work, make them very sensitive to women, and the problem of love and marriage involves their amateur students