17岁的儿子看完心理医生后告诉我,他很多问题都是我们父母教育不当引起的。从这以后,我们一批评他,他就说:“这都赖你们!”他提出的过分要求,我一反对,他就说:“谁让你没把我教育好?”我们承认自己在教育上有失误,但他怎么能把全部责任推到我们身上?该怎么让他认识到自己的错误? 17-year-old son after reading a psychiatrist told me that many of his problems are caused by improper education of our parents. Since then, when we criticize him, he said: “It depends on you!” He made the excessive demands. When I opposed him, he said: “Who told you not to educate me?” To admit that he has made mistakes in education, but how can he push the full responsibility to us? How to make him aware of his mistakes?