母亲说:你要是考不进市重点,我就抹脖子! 女儿说:吃多少安眠药才能死去? 望子成龙,这是每一个中国父母的梦。这作为一条连接中国家庭两代人最牢靠最结实的纽带,使一代又一代的父母找到了负重的价值和生存的意义。现代心理学上,把人的智力差异分为三个等级,即超常态,常态和低常态。一般来说是两头尖而小,中间广而多。在现实生活中存在的“学习慢”的孩子至少有1/4,其中又有相当多的“学习有障碍者”。古人尚知:“上智与下愚之民少,而中庸之民多”。但是,固执的中国父母就是不认这个理,他们往往安排专门的甚至耗资巨大的教育计划,在“皮鞭”和“蜜糖”的双重胁迫下,让孩子非 My mother said: If you do not test into the city focus, I wipe the neck! Daughter said: how much to eat sleeping pills to die? Succeed, this is the dream of every Chinese parents. It serves as the most solid and secure link between two generations of Chinese families, enabling generation after generation of parents to find the value of weight and the meaning of existence. In modern psychology, people’s intelligence differences are divided into three levels, namely supernormal, normal and low normal. Generally speaking, two sharp and small, the middle of more and more. There are at least a quarter of children learning slow in real life, among which there are quite a lot of “learning disabilities.” The ancients still know: “the wisdom of the people under the people and less, and the people of the mean”. However, stubborn Chinese parents do not recognize this principle, they often arrange special or even costly education programs, under the “double whip” and “honey” under the coercion, let the children non