虽然俗话说的好:“孩子是自己的好。”可在现实生活中,“我的孩子不如邻居小明聪明。”“你怎么这么淘,你看狗蛋多省心”……诸如此类的话常常不由自主地从父母嘴里冒出。说这话时的父母内心是一种望子成龙,望女成凤的迫切,但他们没有意识到,这样的教育方法很容易使孩子产生挫败感,事实上,孩子在听到这样的比较时,最直接的反应就是不服气,再之后就会觉得父母的目标实在可望不可及。于是造成恶性循 Although the saying goes, “Children are their own good.” “In real life,” “My child is not as clever as my neighbor.” “How do you find such a scourge?” ... Such words often involuntarily come out of their parents mouth. When they say this, the heart of their parents is an impetuosity and hope of success. However, they do not realize that this kind of education can easily frustrate their children. In fact, when children hear such comparisons, The direct response is not convinced, then you will feel the goal of parents is elusive. So cause vicious circle