很多家庭里都有一些“久治不愈”的“病人”。比如,反复生病的妻子、不停酗酒的丈夫、总是惹麻烦的少年……其他家庭成员一边因为这个“病人”痛苦不堪,一边又习惯了有病人存在的家庭状态。其实,很多人“生病”也许是为了掩盖家庭中更深层次的矛盾。他们是家庭造就的“病人”…… Many families have some “patients ” for a long time. For example, repeatedly sick wife, husband who does not stop drinking, always trouble young ... ... other family members because of this “patient ” painful, while getting used to the existence of the patient’s family status. In fact, many people may be “sick” to cover up even deeper conflicts in their families. They are made by family. “Patient” ......