自信是个极易让人信赖又让人怀疑的主儿。让人信赖是因为他不懦弱、不妥协,而让人怀疑,则是因为他一不留神就会狂妄,尤其是说的赶在了做的之前。自信的人常常有来自两方面的攻击:比他强的人压制他,是因为害怕他的锋芒对自己构成威胁;不如他的人嫉妒他,是因为反感他的奔走把自己抛落得太远。自信受到的伤害是无辜的,是无奈的,能不能挺住也实在不易。 Confidence is an extremely trusting and suspicious person. People trust because he is not cowardly, uncompromising, and suspicious, but because he inadvertently will be arrogant, especially in time to do before. Confident people often have attacks from two sides: those who are stronger suppress him because of fear of his edge posing a threat to himself; those who are not jealous of him because of his resentment of running away throw themselves too far. Confidence in hurt is innocent, is helpless, can not hold it is not easy.