我所认识的真正快乐的人,大部分都经常把手弄脏。他们或好园艺、或擅烹饪、或长于修理家具,所接触的都是基本材料,具有生命气息,而不是让人无法体验触觉刺激的预制物件。我父亲是市场销售顾问,他在工作坊建造红木小艇的时候,是他最快乐的时光。每次我们在湖上划这小艇,总有人来问我们可愿意把小艇出售。父亲总共花了3个时辰建造小艇,还亲手编制藤椅、建桃木栏杆。 Most of the real happy people I know have often dirty their hands. They are good at horticulture or are good at cooking or longer than repairing furniture, and are exposed to the basics and have a life of breath, not prefabricated objects that make them impossible to experience tactile stimuli. My father, a marketing consultant, was his happiest time building the mahogany dinghy at the workshop. Every time we drove this boat on the lake, someone always asked us if we would like to sell the boat. My father took a total of three hours to build a boat, but also hand-made rattan chairs, built peach railings.