爱听表扬与恭维——一个民族的幼稚病。人格不成熟的孩子和灵魂已衰老的老人,是最爱听表扬与恭维话的人群。而人格成熟、内心自信的成年人,在恭维和批评面前往往表现得都很淡定。老年人思维的腐朽:对于许多老人来说,最禁不起的是批评,最重要的是面子。年轻人在说事实的时候要顾及老人的面子,老年人的思想一般都很顽固、 Love to compliment and compliment - a national sickness. Immature children and the soul of the elderly have been aging, is the favorite to compliment and compliment the crowd. Adults with mature personality and self-confidence often show calmness in the face of compliments and criticisms. Decaying senses of the elderly: For many elderly people, the most prohibitive is criticism, the most important thing is face-saving. Young people should take account of the face of the elderly when they tell the truth. The thinking of the elderly is generally very stubborn.