学生投诉老师,以前有,现在有,将来也还会有。那么,我们该怎么办呢?一、改变投诉观念——视投诉为正常行为。困扰我们思想认识的,不是这个事件本身,而是我们对这个事情的态度和观点。有人总结出影响我们情绪的三个不合理观念:“绝对化要求”“过分概括化”“糟糕至极”。本例中“绝对化要求”是“学生必须听话”“学生不应该投诉老师”等。其实,学校是孩子进入成年人之 Students complain about the teacher, there are, there are now, there will be in the future. So, how do we do? First, change the concept of complaints - as complaints for normal behavior. It is not the incident itself that bothers us for our ideological understanding, but our attitude and viewpoint on this matter. Some people summed up the three irrational ideas that affect our emotions: “Absolute requirements ” “over-generalization ” “terrible ”. In this case “absolute requirements ” is “students must be obedient ” “students should not complain about the teacher ” and so on. In fact, the school is a child into adults