如果一个已婚男人没听到过“亲爱的,今晚不行”这句话,那真是稀罕事。许多男人接受这话就象接受妻子拒绝喝第二杯咖啡一样习以为常。但也有些男人对这话感到刺耳,尤其在他格外需要夫妻亲昵之时。即使是历经各种磨难的婚姻,在一方感到被另一方嫌厌时,这婚姻也会陷入危机。今天,专家们发现,因这种问题寻求咨询的夫妻日益增多。前美国性教育学会主席雷莉·祖斯曼说:“性冷淡是夫妻们向性学家所提的最常见问题。”据估计,约 If a married man did not hear the words “my darling, not tonight,” it is really rare. Many men accept the same as accepting his wife’s refusal to drink a second cup of coffee. But some men feel harsh on these words, especially when he particularly needs the intimacy of the couple. Even in marriages that have taken a variety of hardships, the marriage is in crisis when one side feels annoyed by the other. Today, experts find that the number of couples seeking counseling on such issues is increasing. Rayleigh Zussman, former president of the American Society for Sex Education, said: “Frigidity is the most common question couples ask sexologists.” It is estimated that about