晚上,一边做饭一边催儿子快点写作业。看他皱着眉头在厨房里晃来晃去,我的火气慢慢上来了。但又觉得他似乎有心事,就忍着没吱声。儿子转了会儿见我不理他,终于气呼呼地说:“妈妈,我饿了,不能写作业,我要吃东西!”我说:“马上要吃饭了,你先吃些水果吧。”儿子更大声地说:“不行,我要吃饼干,我要吃面包!”好像谁得罪他了似的。我问:“是不是学校里有什么不开心的事啊?”话音未落,儿子就带着哭腔说:“评比台被撕下去了,能高兴吗?”(评比台是一张写着孩子名字的纸,上面有小格,如果孩子在哪方面有进步,就会被贴上一个小贴,以兹奖励。从开学至今,儿子已得到四十多个小贴了)见儿子情绪如此激动,我就尽量用平静的声音问:“那是为什么呢?”“因为什么?作业没完成呗!”儿子的调门依然很高。“妈妈 At night, while reminding my son to cook while hurry homework. Look at him frowning dangling in the kitchen, my anger slowly up. But think he seems to mind, they endured silent. My son turned to see me ignore him, and finally angrily said: ”“ Mom, I am hungry, can not write homework, I want to eat! ”I said: “ immediately to eat, you eat some fruit ”The son said louder:“ No, I want to eat cookies, I want to eat bread! ” I asked: “Is not there any unhappy things in school ah?” Voice hardly ever, his son said with a tearful voice: “Bench was torn off, can be happy?” A piece of paper with a child’s name, a small box above it, and if the child is making progress there, it is rewarded with a small sticker that has received over 40 small posters since the school’s opening.) See Son emotional so excited, I try to ask with a quiet voice: “Why is it? ” “Because what? Job did not complete chant!” Son’s tone is still high. "mom