嫉妒心理是一种消极的情绪体验,往往在别人胜过自己时产生,包括心态失衡、抵触甚至忌恨。有关研究表明,嫉妒最早出现在学步前的婴儿期,当孩子发现别人那儿有自己想要得到的东西时,无论是玩具、表扬或成人的关注,他们的内心就会产生妒意。这种心理如果太强,时间久了就可能成为孩子人格的一部分,让孩子变得自私、狭隘、消极,影响孩子的身心健康。一个满怀嫉妒心理的人,人际交往不会和谐,心情不会舒畅,甚至可能因嫉妒心理作怪而走向极端。媒体报道,河南信阳一位高中女生,半夜将硫酸泼到同学脸上,作案动机仅仅是“她学习比我好”。江苏南通一个姑娘,嫉妒妹妹比自己强,得到了更多的母爱,竟把硫酸泼向了母亲和妹妹。此类触目惊心的案例都是警示:做父母的,应从小注意矫正孩子的嫉妒心理。 Jealousy is a negative emotional experience, often produced when others over themselves, including psychological imbalance, conflict or even hate. Studies show that jealousy first appeared in pre-toddler infancy, and when children found something else they wanted, there was jealousy in their heart, whether it be toys, praise, or adult concerns. If this psychology is too strong, over time may become part of the child’s personality, so that children become selfish, narrow, negative, affect the child’s physical and mental health. A jealous person, interpersonal relationships will not be harmonious, the mood will not be comfortable, and may even be jealous due to blame and go to the extreme. According to media reports, a high school girl in Xinyang, Henan Province, poured sulfuric acid into her classmate’s face in the middle of the night. His motive was merely “She learned better than me.” Nantong, Jiangsu, a girl, jealous sister than himself, get more maternal love, actually pour sulfuric acid to the mother and sister. Such shocking cases are a warning: parents, childhood attention should be taken to correct the child’s jealousy.