圆子:你好,最近心里一直有个疙瘩,怎么也解不开,非常烦闷,希望你能帮帮我。我和妻子结婚快5年了,日子虽然平淡了些,但我们还是比较恩爱的。我是不太懂得浪漫的男人,而妻子的骨子里却有点小浪漫。她总喜欢买些装饰品,把家里布置得温暖舒适,充满浪漫的氛围。孩子出生以后,妻子把所有的注意力都放在了孩子身上,她的那点浪漫情结也被生活磨得越来越少。 Mariko: Hello, my heart has been a knot lately, how can not be solved, very bored, I hope you can help me. My wife and I married nearly 5 years, although the day a bit dull, but we are still more loving. I do not know a romantic man, but his wife’s bones are a little bit romantic. She always like to buy some decorations, the home layout warm and comfortable, full of romantic atmosphere. After the child is born, the wife puts all her attention on the child, and her romantic feeling is less and less like her life.