每个人希望所遇之人是同道,这样便可朋友多多,生活和谐,始终处于爱和关怀之中。但是俗话说,世界上没有相同的两片树叶,即便你们是朋友,有诸多共同点,也会有不一致的地方。所以,当遇上合不来的同学之后,该怎么办呢?首先,要承认差异,每个人都有不一样的地方,你不能强求别人处处和自己一样,这样才能容忍各自性格上的差别。其次,要学会求大同,存小异,在不同之中,发现相同之处。再有就是多发现别人的优点,并扬长补短。性格不同的人, Everyone who wants to meet is a fellow, so you can have a lot of friends, live a harmonious life, always in love and care. But as the saying goes, there are not two identical leaves in the world, even if you are friends, there are many things in common, there will be inconsistencies. So, what should I do when I meet a classmate who does not meet? First of all, to recognize the difference, everyone has a different place. You can not force others everywhere, just like yourself, so as to tolerate their own differences in character. Second, we must learn to seek common ground while reserving differences between small and different, and find out similarities among different things. Then there is more to find the advantages of others, and make up for short. Personally different people,