孩子上小学后,我不断听到他说与同学发生冲突的事:同桌借了他的本子用,还的却不如原来的本子好;课间有人踩了他的脚,虽然向他道了歉,他却嫌弄脏了他的鞋,暗暗怀恨在心,一心想下次也踩别人一脚;他跟同桌同时举手要回答问题,可是老师点了同桌的名字,没让他发言,也让他对老师不满…… After the child was in elementary school, I kept hearing about what he said was a conflict with his classmates: borrowing his book from the same table was still not as good as the original book; someone stepped on his foot during the lesson, although he was told He apologized, but he too stained his shoes, secretly resentment, bent on the next step also take the others foot; he raised his hand at the same table with the same table to answer the question, but the teacher ordered the same table name, did not let him speak , Let him dissatisfied with the teacher ......