问:我家宝宝学走路、学说话都很快。可是上幼儿园后却变笨了,什么都学不会,弄得他爸爸不喊他的名字,而是喊他“小笨蛋”。是宝宝的发育出问题了,还是有别的原因?尤旗答:其实很多时候,宝宝变笨的真正原因在于家长自己。有这样一个童话故事:有位美丽的公主从小被巫婆关在高塔之内,每天只能见到巫婆。巫婆每次见她都对她说:“你的样子丑极了,见到你的人都会感到害怕。”公主相信了巫婆的话,怕被别人嘲笑,不敢逃走。直到有一天,一位王子经过塔下看到公主的美貌,惊为天人,救出了她。公主这才意识到自己原来如此美丽。 Q: My baby learn to walk, learn to speak quickly. But after the kindergarten has become stupid, do not learn anything, leaving his father did not call his name, but called him “stupid ”. Is the development of the baby out of the question, or there are other reasons? Eurasian flag Answer: In fact, many times, the real reason for baby stupid is the parents themselves. There is such a fairy tale: a beautiful princess was kept inside the tower by a witch, can only see the witch every day. Every time the witch saw her, she said to her: “Your appearance is very ugly, and everyone who sees you will feel scared.” "The princess believed in the witch’s words, afraid of being ridiculed by others and afraid to escape. Until one day, a prince saw the beauty of the princess under the tower, scared to Heaven, rescued her. The princess realized that she was so beautiful.