青少年时期看古装电影,银幕上许多清官家里都挂着一幅字“制怒”。清官们被逼得火冒三丈时,抬头看一看这两个字,顿时就平静了下来。这些年类似的场景在影视剧里比较少见了,但常能见到街头某些年轻人手臂上纹着一个“忍”字,具有讽刺意义的是他们只是耍酷,并不理解这个字的含义。纹着“忍”字的人常常一身戾气,你瞅他一眼,很可能被吼“你瞅啥呢?”大多数人的情绪管理能力 Adolescent period to see the costume movie, many honest people on the screen are hanging a house “system anger ”. Officials who were forced to furious, looked up and looked at the two words, suddenly calm down. The scenes of these years are rare in theatricals but it is common to see some young people on the streets tattooing a “tolerance” on their arms. Ironically, they just play cool and do not understand the word The meaning of People who wear the word “Forbearance” often get angry and you look at him and may be bellowed. “What do you look at?” Most people’s emotional management skills