有一种爱叫“父母的爱”。面对父母的更多给予,孩子有时候会用独特的声音告诉父母:“你们给得太多,你们给得不对。”正如世界上一切事物的发展过程一样,孩子的成长过程也不可能一帆风顺。国外有位心理学家认为:有些“不正常”的表现在孩子成长过程中起着特殊的作用,如果处理得好,会有利于孩子形成健全的人格和健康的心理。而且,孩子的每一个“非正常”的表现背后都有一个正当的理由,他们是在宣泄 There is a love called “love of parents.” In the face of more parents’ giving, children sometimes tell their parents with a unique voice: “You give too much, you are not right.” Just as the development of everything in the world, the child’s growth process is not May be smooth sailing. Some foreign psychologists think: Some “abnormal ” performance plays a special role in children’s growth process, if handled well, will be conducive to the formation of a healthy personality and healthy psychology. Moreover, there is a valid reason behind every child’s “abnormal” performance, they are catharsis