丧偶之后,想找个新老伴儿,本无可厚非。但,很多老年朋友在这方面没有把握好火候,与子女闹僵了。人们习惯把责任推给子女一方,什么不关心老年人的情感需求啦;什么子女两眼盯在财产上,不愿别人进来分一杯羹啦……其实这些都是表面现象、个别现象。据我了解,有很大一部分再婚老人,之所以让子女不能接受,并不是不能接受他(她)再婚的要求和事实, Widowed, looking for a new wife and children, this is understandable. However, many elderly friends do not have a good chance of waiting in this regard and are agitated with their children. People are accustomed to blame their children on one side, what does not care about the emotional needs of the elderly friends; what children staring at the property, do not want others to come in for a share of friends ...... In fact, these are superficial phenomena, individual phenomena. As far as I know, a large part of the remarried elderly people are not accepting the request and fact of his or her remarriage.