争第一与评第一文／北京市东城区教科研中心幼教研俞昌珈在竞赛活动中，希望名列榜首、荣获赞誉是人自尊的需要，幼儿也如此。像话题中的毛毛因没得到冠军就哭的现象，在中、大班时有发生。这是由于幼儿自尊的需要没得到满足，于是就用哭来发泄不良情绪，教师应予以理解。... Compete for the first and comment on the first text / Beijing Dongcheng District Education Research Center early childhood education research Yu Changjia In the competition, I hope the top of the list, won the praise is the need of self-esteem, so are young children. Like the topic of Mao Mao did not get the title cry, in the middle and big classes occur. This is because the needs of children’s self-esteem have not been met, so crying to vent bad mood, teachers should be understood. ...