有这样一个故事:从前有个人坐在井边哭,过往的人问他缘故,他说自己的5分钱掉进井里了。有好心人安慰他道:“不要难过了,我给你一毛钱吧。”谁知那人哭得更厉害了。别人有点不解了,就问他为什么还要伤心。只听他回答道:“要是先前那5分钱不丢,我现在不就有一毛五了吗?”……别以为这个故事是笑话就听罢一乐。其实,在这个小小的故事里,反映出一个重要的心理现象,即许多人总是倾向于把自己思想中认为重要的东西肆意夸大,使之成为他们思想和生活中压倒一切的东西。当人产生这种人为放大的心理偏差时, There is such a story: in the past someone sitting in the hole crying, past people asked him why, he said his 5 cents into the well. Good-hearted people comfort him: “Do not be sad, I’ll give you a dime. ” Who knows the man cried more. Someone puzzled, asked why he was sad. Just listen to him replied: “If the previous five cents do not throw, I now do not have a hair five? ” ... ... Do not think this story is a joke to listen to a joy. In fact, in this little story, one important psychological phenomenon is reflected in the fact that many people tend to wantonly exaggerate what they think is important in their thinking and make them the overriding thing in their thinking and life. When people have this kind of artificially enlarged psychological deviation,