孩子们在一起玩免不了会有冲突。当孩子们发生冲突时,爸爸妈妈常常感到为难:即便错在别的孩子,如果去批评他,也显得自己“护犊子”;如果不论青红皂白,总批评自己的孩子,又会委屈他。该怎么办?其实,只要我们变换一下角色,就可以把冲突变成孩子学习为人处世的绝好机会,让他们通过解决冲突获得成长。 There is a conflict between children playing together. When children clash, parents often feel embarrassed: Even if the wrong child, if you criticize him, also appears to be “nurse”; if indiscriminate, always criticize their children, will be wronged him. In fact, as long as we change roles, we can turn the conflict into a perfect opportunity for children to learn how to behave and let them gain growth through conflict resolution.