一忌“人前教子”俗话说:“人前教子,人后教妻。”其寓意和作用是说:在人前教子会让孩子记住教训,以后不再犯类似的错误。为什么能记住教训,其实就是因为在人前将孩子的自尊心狠狠伤了一把,孩子记住的不是事情的过程,而是那次深深的伤害。其实,“人前教子,人后教 A bogey ”before the people teach children “ As the saying goes: ”The former teaching children, people taught the wife. “ Its meaning and effect is that: before the child will let children remember the lesson, after no longer make a similar mistake. Why can we remember the lesson, in fact, is because the child’s self-esteem before the man severely injured a child remember not the process of things, but the deep injury. In fact, ”people before teaching children, people teach