我们每个人都确信自己不够完美,时时处处与对立面较量。这种对立面既包括自身性格的矛盾,也包括别人的不同意见。我们耗费了诸多精力去主张、维护和修复自己的价值。但只有很少的优秀领导者能够坦然接受自己的对立面,承认矛盾,珍视自我,进而以这种宽厚的胸怀感染自己的员工,让员工 Every one of us is convinced that we are not perfect, and that we are always at odds with the opposite. This opposite includes both the contradictions of their own character, but also includes the disagreement of others. We spend a lot of effort to advocate, maintain and repair their own value. However, only a few excellent leaders can accept their opposites candidly, admit contradictions and cherish themselves, and then infect themselves with such a generous mind that employees