董薇老师:您好!我爱人今年48岁了,由于工作业绩突出,去年被提拔到一个重要的岗位担任领导工作。刚开始我由衷地为他感到骄傲和高兴,觉得他多年的辛勤工作得到了认可。可是现在我却陷入了深深的担忧之中。自从他到了这个岗位之后,加班越来越多,回家也越来越晚,以前很少抽烟的他现在烟瘾极大,一天至少两包,有时还会更多, Dong Wei Teacher: Hello! My lover is 48 years old and was promoted to an important post last year as a leader because of outstanding work performance. From the very beginning, I sincerely feel proud and happy for him and think he has been recognized for many years of hard work. But now I am in deep fear. Since he arrived at this post, more and more overtime work, getting home later and later, he rarely smoked before the current heavy addiction, at least two packages a day, and sometimes more,