中国人信奉“吃得苦中苦,方为人上人”。在教育孩子方面,也认为必须勤学苦练才能成材,培养孩子坚强的意志和不怕苦不怕累的精神就理所当然的要经历一番艰苦磨难。我很赞成上面的观点,孩子应该接受挑战,但是如果我们不向孩子灌输苦和累的观念,而是使孩子在锻炼中感受到乐趣的话,培养意志的过程就会变得轻松而有趣。在这里我想举一个小小的例子,那就是——陪儿子晨练。 The Chinese people believe in “bitter and bitter in eating, and people in the party.” In educating their children, they also think that they must study hard and work hard before they can make their living, and that they should cultivate their strong will and enthusiasm for not suffering from hardships and tiredness for granted. I agree with the above point that children should be challenged, but if we do not instil in our children a sense of bitterness and tiredness, but rather make our children feel joyful in exercise, the process of cultivating will becomes easy and fun. Here I would like to give a small example, that is - with his son morning exercise.