军人恋爱的时代地貌 革命成功的最初年月里，很多军人先结婚后恋爱。军旅小说《我在天堂等你》以及电视剧《激情燃烧的岁月》中，我们看到，激情燃烧起来的速度永远比恋情燃烧得快。尽管，在恋情缺席的年代，他们的恋爱仍得到继续，但那不是军人的黄金恋爱时代。历史将证明，军人作为“最可爱的人”受到全社会姑娘们的青睐，是后来的事。那时候，很多城里姑娘介绍自己对象的时候，都喜欢加一句：“他是当兵的”；那时候，很多兵因为过分吃香以至想反悔当初的感情，结果女朋友闹到部队而遭到处分。 Soldiers love the era of landform revolution in the first years of success, many soldiers first married after love. Military novel “I am waiting for you in heaven” and the drama “Passion burning years”, we see that passion burning faster than romance forever. Although, in the absence of love, their love continued, but it was not a soldier’s golden age of love. History will prove that military personnel as the “most lovely people” are favored by the whole society of girls, and it is the later thing. At that time, when many city girls introduce themselves as objects, they all like to add: “He is a soldier.” At that time, many soldiers were so overbearing that they wanted to regret their feelings. As a result, their girlfriend went to the army and suffered Disposition.