教育孩子的前提是了解孩子。当家长们面对“90后”——中国最年轻的一代,或许会感到既熟悉又陌生。熟悉,是因为他们就在您身边,也许就是自家的孩子;陌生,是因为父母们常常觉得太不了解这些孩子,他们的所思所想似乎和父母隔着一个世纪。面对“90后”一代,父母们往往苦恼自己呕心沥血、鞠躬尽瘁,却依然和孩子隔着肚皮,有时难免发生冲突。结合“90后”的特征,或许采取有效的措施,更利于父母与子女建立和谐的亲子关系—— The premise of educating children is to understand children. When parents face “90 ” - China’s youngest generation, may feel both familiar and unfamiliar. Familiar with them because they are on your side, maybe their own children; strange because parents often feel too ignorant of these children, they think and think of separated from their parents a century. In the face of “90 ” generation, parents often distressed their painstaking efforts, spared no efforts, but still with the child across the belly, and sometimes it is inevitable conflict. Combined with the characteristics of “90 after ”, may take effective measures, but also conducive to the establishment of a harmonious parent-child relationship between parents and children -