法国有一则寓言:北风和南风比威力,看谁能把行人身上的大衣脱掉。北风先狂吹一通,企图用蛮力剥下行人的大衣,结果行人为了抵御北风的侵袭,将大衣裹得更紧了。南风则徐徐吹动,顿时风和日丽,行人因为觉得温暖如春,就解开纽扣脱掉大衣,南风获得了胜利。这个故事被心理学家称为“南 There is a fable in France: the north wind and the southerly wind are more powerful than anybody else to see who can take off the pedestrian’s coat. The north wind blew for the first time in an attempt to use brute force to peel off the coat of pedestrians. As a result, pedestrians wrapped the coat more tightly to resist the invasion of the north wind. Southerly is blowing slowly, suddenly the wind was sunny, because pedestrians feel warm spring, unlock the coat to take off his coat, won the southerly. This story is called psychologists ”South